Fix a race that could cause GL commands to be executed from the wrong thread.
RefBase subclasses can now decide how they want to be destroyed.
Fix a race in SurfaceFlinger that could cause layers to be leaked forever.
Fix a race-condtion in SurfaceFlinger that could lead to a crash.
initial cherry-pick:
resolved conflicts for merge of b9783b49 to honeycomb-plus-aosp
Change-Id: I2a335e03fff219e35c18a7b0089b3a11d636576f