When requesting audio focus and linkToDeath() threw a
RemoteException, AudioService was only logging a warning, and
was still changing the focus, with a non-null death handler.
The change first check that linkToDeath() didn't fail, and only
then proceeds to change the focus (dispatch focus change
notification, updates the focus stack, and updates the remote
controls).
Change-Id: I0b96dd3c6e924d93f419880349d49f8b360b110b